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Rare: Female Indian Detective Bhawana PaliwalFiled Under: Detective, India, Indians, Women

Meet Indian women detective Bhawana Paliwal

Women are there in all types of job stream, teaching, secretatrial work, police, doctor etc.etc.  But her job is different.  Meet  Bhavna Paliwal of New Delhi is, a private detective being hired by Indian brides to investigate about their suitors.

Bhavna Paliwal, is among one of India’s wedding detectives, who are being hired here in growing numbers to dig out out the truth about prospective mates.

In India, hiring a wedding detective like that of Paliwal has become a familiar prenuptial habit, as important as the heavy wedding gold and the multi-cuisine ten-course meal served on plates.

Confidential detectives are in business in India for several years but today their services are more essential than before. As there  is a tremendous enhancement in the business class of Delhi, so is the augment of dowries. Those dowries, in turn, have boosted the encouragement for hoax.

Grooms from United States come in haste, marry, then rush back home with the booty, leaving behind what have become known as “abandoned brides”. Meanwhile, in India, young couples who meet over the internet are getting away with lies that gossip would once have exposed.

Anupam Mittal, founder of Shaadi.com, an internet portal that celebrated its millionth match last year says,

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Sanjay Dutt ties knot with Dilnasheen a.k.a. ManyataFiled Under: Bollywood, Sanjay

Sanjay Dutt tied the knot with Dilnasheen a.k.a Manyata according to the Hindu rituals on 11^th February,2007 in Mumbai in one Manyata’s friend’s residence. Sunil Shetty did the job of her brother and did the kanyadan as none from the bride’s family were present. Even Sanjay’s sisters and daughter Trishala were indiscernible in the marriage. According to Priya Dutt, his sister, she was not aware of the marriage, she got the news via the media. According to the grapevine, Sanjay and Manyata had a court marriage on February 7^th in Goa.

Now, Manyata’s previous husband Mr. Miraj has entered the scene in a cinematic comportment and claims that she was married to him on 5^th April, 2003 in Oshiwala in Mumbai, her real name is Dilnasheen and they have a three year old son from their marriage, who is being brought up by her mother in Dubai and the attention-grabbing and exicting assert made by Mr Miraj is that Manyata is yet to divorce him. He is in possession of a Nikahnama issued by the Mumbai Shariat. If Manyata has not sought divorce from Miraj and is married now to Sanjay, a case of fidelity is probably to be filed against her.

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It is also found that Mr. Miraj is presently in jail serving his term for prank calling female film stars and making indecent SMSs to various heroines and he claims that he used to exercise these activities at the behest of Manyata only.  Miraj claims that recently Sanjay Dutt used to confront him and used goondaism to grab Manyata from him by using his power and influence.

Well, if the accusations prepared by Miraj are exact and accurate, Sanjay Dutt who is already undergoing court case against him for possessing AK 57, is likely to countenance more quandary, trouble, hullabaloo, corrupt and immorality case too for convincingly marrying Dilnasheen a.k.a Manyata as she still stands married to Miraj and has not separated from him legally.

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Indian in US kills pregnant daughter, her familyFiled Under: India, Indians

MARKHAM (Illinois): A man faces murder charges for the deaths of his pregnant daughter and her family, crime authorities allege stemmed from his anger over his son-in-law’s failure to secure his permission for the marriage.

Subhash Chander, 57, was being held without bond on three counts of first-degree murder and one count of intentional homicide of an unborn child in connection with the fatal fire on Saturday in the Chicago suburb of Oak Forest.

Chander told police he disliked Rajesh Kumar, his 36-year-old son-in-law because he belonged to a lower caste, said Robert Milan, Cook County’s first assistant state’s attorney.

He allegedly set the fire that killed Kumar, Monika Rani, 22, and their three-year-old son, Vansh, authorities said. Rani was five months pregnant.

Chander was represented by a public defender at a bond hearing on Tuesday, but his name was not immediately available.

Source: NavBharatTimes

वॉशिंगटन : अमेरिका के इलिनॉयस में एक 57 वर्षीय भारतीय ने अपनी गर्भवती बेटी , दामाद और नाती को जिंदा जला दिया। इस व्यक्ति ने अपनी बेटी के ‘ निचली जाति ‘ के व्यक्ति से शादी करने के कारण यह कदम उठाया। सुभाष चंद पर तीन हत्याएं करने और अजन्मे बच्चे की जान लेने का दोषी ठहराया गया है।

न्यायाधीश मार्टिन ई . मैकडॉफ ने सुभाष को जमानत देने से इनकार कर दिया। पुलिस प्रशासन ने बताया कि वीकेंड में सुभाष चंद ने अपनी बेटी के मकान में आग लगाकर मोनिका रानी (22), राजेश कुमार (36), उनके बेटे वंश (3) को जिंदा जला दिया। रानी पांच माह की गर्भवती थी।

चंद ने पुलिस को बताया कि वह अपनी बेटी तथा दामाद के कारण परेशान थे क्योंकि उन्होंने उसकी मर्जी के बिना शादी कर ली थी और वह कुमार को ‘ निचली जाति ‘ का मानते थे। राज्य के प्रथम सहायक अटॉर्नी जनरल रॉबर्ट मिलान के हवाले से मीडिया ने यह जानकारी दी। लेकिन चंद की बहन ने बताया कि यह सही नहीं है। उसने कहा कि परिवार ने इस शादी को स्वीकार कर लिया था और जात पात उनके परिवार के लिए कोई मुद्दा नहीं है।

बताया जाता है कि हादसे की रात चंद अपने बेटे के लिए पेट्रोल लेने पेट्रोल पंप गया लेकिन बाद में उसने कंटेनर को अपनी बेटी को देने का फैसला किया। बेटी के घर पहुंचने पर कुमार ने उससे कहा कि देर हो चुकी है और वे अपने घर जाएं।

चंद ने पुलिस को बताया कि कुमार ने उसे धकेलना शुरू कर दिया जिससे पेट्रोल दरवाजे के आसपास गिर गया। इससे उसे गुस्सा आ गया और उसने अपनी जेब से लाइटर निकाल कर वहां बिछे कारपेट में आग लगा दी। चंद ने बताया कि उसने आग लगने की सूचना देने के लिए पुलिस या अग्निशमन विभाग को फोन नहीं किया ना ही यह जानने के लिए अपनी बेटी को फोन किया कि वह और उसका परिवार सुरक्षित है या नहीं।

मिलान ने बताया कि पेट्रोल पंप के एक सहायक ने चंद की पहचान की जो पेट्रोल लेने वहां गया था। पुलिस ने भी प्लास्टिक के पेट्रोल कंटेनर को बरामद कर लिया जिसमें चंद के नाम की पर्ची भी लगी थी। पीड़ितों की मौत जहरीली कार्बन मोनोऑक्साइड गैस तथा धुएं के कारण हुई। कुक काउंटी के मेडिकल परीक्षक कार्यालय ने इस घटना को नरसंहार बताया है। यह घटना इलाके के एक दो मंजिला अपार्टमेंट के दूसरे तल पर हुई। इस इलाके में अधिकतर नए कामकाजी अप्रवासी और खासतौर से भारत से आए लोग रहते हैं। आग अपार्टमेंट के अन्य घरों तक भी फैल गई।

अपार्टमेंट में रहने वाले करमजीत सिंह ने बताया , ‘ आग में सब सामान जल गया। मेरे पास केवल यही जैकेट बची है जो मैंने पहन रखी है। मुझे इस घटना पर यकीन नहीं हो रहा है। ‘

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Half empty? Half full?Filed Under: India, Indians

How you look at life is a subject of preference. Say hi to optimistic existing with the help of  the ladder as given below:

Many people in India are in quest of counseling  from hypnotherapy to get to the base of many trouble such as depressing feelings.

 

Hypnosis - understood to have been around for thousands of years - refers to a condition of resolute perception. It is described as a practice where one can hear what is experienced but may not want to shift, departing one in a highly susceptible condition.

Get rid of depressing opinion and feelings and substitute them with positive thinking by following these easy steps suggested by some of the hypnotherapists:

Step 1 
Try to perceive every problem as a test, and an occasion to progress oneself. No one can change us unless we change ourselves.

Step 2 
Keep a catching eagerness — it not only means you produce constructive control but also obtain a optimistic rational approach.

Budge in the group of positive-minded people. Try to stick to the changes you make.

Step 3 
A positive mental outlook will mechanically lift your self-esteem and self-confidence, which provide you with the skills necessary to better your life.

Step 4
Each time you leave your house — whether it is to work or to go on a trip — remember to take your positive attitude with you along with your cellphone and laptop, of course.

Reasons in India

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Indian Monkey Union(All India Bandar Dal) finally speaks out, they are Furious!Filed Under: Interviews

We got a opportunity for a exclusive interview with Mr Bandarnath who is the President of the All India Bandar Dal, they were formed after the outbreak of bad characters within the Monkey community in

  

Q1: (BestDesi.com) Hi, firstly for most of our readers who don’t know about the All India Bandar Dal, can you tell us how it was formed?

Ans: (Mr Bandarnath) The All India Bandar Dal was formed as a result of the number of monkeys in different states adopting unethical and dangerous methods of living on the streets of India, we monkeys don’t get education we try to teach our children since childhood that humans are not our friends but due to the behaviour of humans on our species some of the bandars took law in their own hands. So the All India Bandar Dal was formed to help all the monkeys all over India have standardised living facilities and we will speak for the thousands of monkeys all over

Q2: (BestDesi.com) Do you think the Indian government is going to listen to a leader monkeys?

Ans: (Mr Bandarnath) All we are demanding is equal rights for all of us, we don’t want the humans to hurt us and we wont HURT them, but if we are forced we will have to take definitive action.

Q3: (BestDesi.com) What are your comments about the recent monkey attacks in Guwahati? They by took away mobile phones, toothpastes, sipping coke after opening the refrigerators?

Ans ( Mr Bandarnath)

Mobiles? We try to buy a mobile phone but ask for all these legal documents how are we supposed to get them? We have loved ones all over

Toothpaste? Dentists don’t attend to US! And we go to a pharmacy they try to sell us all this crap, we are confused so we go for products which the educated humans have.

Coke?  Thanda Matlab Coke Cola!

Q4: (BestDesi.com) Ok so you are justifying your fellow monkeys actions? What about the unruly monkey teasing Women? There have been reports of monkeys trying to take off ladies chunni’s and slapping them? What will you say about them?

Ans ( Mr Bandarnath) These are false accusations! We never try to take off ladies clothes ( they hardly wear any!)..and about the report that the monkey slapped the lady she was “Rakhi Sawant” we just hate her.

Q5: (BestDesi.com) But what about the attitude of the party to the riots?

Ans: (Mr Bandarnath) Before you see our party attitude, see the participation of the people in the riots …  

Q6: (BestDesi.com) Do you think there has been an overkill with your `feel-good’ and `India Shining’ campaign? Have these slogans become a joke?

Ans: (Mr Bandarnath) I don’t think `feel-good’ has become a joke or an insult. Even when some people use the expression `feel good’ as part of a joke, it shows that the message has reached … it is being used for cricket, for the sensex, in newspaper headlines. Whether you use or abuse `feel good’, you cannot ignore it. That is a sign of success; it is the best phrase we have ever come up with in an election … as for `India Shining’, in any kind of campaign the law of diminishing returns sets in…

Q7: (BestDesi.com) Ok our last question is what exactly are your Long term Plans?

Ans (Mr Bandarnath)  

• Free education.
• We need coke!
• Keep Rakhi Sawant away from us.
• Tell Indian women to wear more clothes.
• Permanent Shelter Solutions all over India.
• Politics wins, polity loses.

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Who will go away with the title? Amul Star Voice of India |Ishmeet or Harshit on 24th November, 2007Filed Under: Star Plus, Star Voice Of India

Who will go away with the title? Amul Star Voice of India….

Ishmeet or Harshit on 24^th November, 2007.

   

• Very few days ahead

With lessening number of days & increasing anxiety level, Amul STAR Voice of India is reaching the zenith where anxiety & ecstasy will successfully intermingle with enchantment & excitement. The final 2 contestants of the season’s biggest singing talent hunt show are now counting days for the finale – ‘the day’ when the entire nation will rock on their seats with their first ‘STAR Voice of India’.

• The final two contenders

VOI has reached its final stage and only two participants, Harshit and Ishmeet are left eminence among thousands of hopefuls and months of arduous auditions and eliminations.

Some viewers might not be satisfied with the finalists, but at the end of the day its the majority vote that counts. And if the masses think Harshit and Ishmeet are justifiable then it doesn’t really matter what the classes say. Now the fascinating curl would be to see who will the Abhaas loyalists vote for - Harshit of Ishmeet?

• Ishmeet, the shy sardar from Punjab:

Ishmeet is not a bad singer, he is simple, nice, responsive boy who felt very hurt by the nasty, racist comments.  Ishmeet has the potential, with training and practice, to make a great singer. I think that if somebody does not have a sweet voice, he can practice and practice and become a great singer… from a technical point of view(which is what the judges are looking at mostly).Well That will never win people’s hearts.  He was in the Chakravat only once (programming glitch!), never got the lowest votes, never got the highest votes either.

• Harshit, simple boy from UP

Harshit Saxena is a inhibited and undemanding boy from Lucknow . There is nothing tremendous forte about his voice. He took his blind grand mother’s support in getting votes. Since there are not much choices, may be, he may win.    Once or twice he forgot his lines during the performance {eh..amnesia!} [guys. this never happened with Ishmeet, that can be classified as a plus point for Ishmeet].

Left to a middle-of-the-road person like me, I am not in favour nor against these contenders.  My all time favourite singer was Sumitra Iyer who has been voted out (courtesy: Alka). Sumitra was a full package, she had voice, poise, personality, composure ,confidence and captivating voice. Alka was never in that girls’ favour. Anyhow past is history and tomorrow is mystery.

It is after all a fame contest too - the ultimate winner of SVOI will have to do playback singing and sell albums. So it doesn’t matter where the votes come from - Punjab, UP, MP or UK or US…..

• Lata Mankeshwar to grace the occasion:

To gear up the excitement Lata Mankeshwar, the singing kokila of India  will mark her presence   on 24^th November 2007 to give the final verdict on the only Amul STAR Voice of India. It is understood that Lataji herself will have the discretion of selecting the Amul VOI as she will be the Chief Guest and Super Judge.

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UNFAIR GIFT! MR. INDIAN BILLIONAIREFiled Under: Indians

Mukesh Ambani has been affirmed the richest man, a few days ago. He gifted his wife, Neeta Ambani, the most expensive birthday gift of all, a Rs 242 Crore Airbus 319 Corporate Jet, on her 44th.  The aircraft, an Airbus 319, has all the luxury paraphernalia coupled with the everyday life of jet-setting kind such as a sky bar, a master bedroom as well as a bathroom with fancy shower.
The aircraft is also equipped with a big business centre, outpost television and a cabin with state-of-the-art system for music and games, besides wireless communication.
Neeta happily celebrated her birthday on Thursday, and received the gift from her husband, the World’s richest man and of course the head of Reliance Industries!
The aircraft arrived at the Delhi Indira Gandhi International airport on Thursday, confirming the rumours! Mukesh will now have hopefully have his office in the sky. He got the Aircraft specially tailored to his personal needs after he had bought it. Now, this is what you  you call style? I wonder where is his personal parking space for this Jet.
It was a thoughtless inclination on the part of the Indian billionaire to give his sweetheart such a luxurious endowment.  Had he spent the money on community work and gave it instead to donations, it would have been excellent.  This conduct will only promote all prosperous and affluent folks to spend profligately on their spouses and the spouses will per se expect such classy gifts in the near future.
As an alternative it would have been better if Mr Billionaire took a message from Dubai and took up a more benevolent venture for the spilling over starving and ignorant millions of Indians. Recently under the Dubai Cares Programme , the country took pledge to sponsor 100 thousands of poor children in India and Africa. World’s Richest Man Mr. Mukesh Ambani should look around and feel for his people rather than gratifying his beloved.

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